Developing romantic feelings for
someone who only sees the relationship as just being friends can be
frustrating. These tips will help you escape the friend zone
Ask for a date
Asking to go out on a date will suggest
you do not just want to remain in the friend zone. This could take a lot
of convincing as the person may not be used to going on a romantic date
with you. Be patient and look for ways to convince the person. Also,
do not expect things to drastically turn out the way you want after the
first date. Be consistent and keep at it. Also, keep an open mind and do
not feel bad if things do not work out.
Improve yourself
Increase your chances of leaving the
friend zone by improving yourself or looking attractive. For a lady, it
might be losing some weight or wearing slight or more make-up. Guys
could consider toning and firming up their muscles. Attraction plays a
huge role and one way to get what you want is to look attractive for
that potential partner.
Make a move
Action they say, speaks louder than
words. Except one practices what is being said, one will still remain in
the friend zone. Make a move to get out of the friend zone if you want
to enjoy a romantic relationship. Make plans and put things into action
and proper perspective. Also bear in mind that not all friendships will
lead to a romantic relationship, so do not be disappointed when things
do not work out to your taste.
Value the person
Some people get stuck in the friend zone because they value the relationship more than the other person. Valuing the other person gives you a guide to the relationship and lets you appreciate the strengths of your potential partner. The individual has to come before the relationship. If there is no person to crush on, there will be no relationship to build.
Start early enough
The best way to avoid being in the friend
zone is to make your intentions known from the outset. Make it known to
your friend that you are interested in him/her. This may be difficult
especially for a lady because of societal values. Pay attention to
things around them and compliment them when necessary. They will get
that clue of interest and follow suit.
Take some time off
People may prefer to keep others in the
friend zone because they are used to having them around or tending to
their needs. There is a popular saying that absence makes the heart grow
fonder. Take some time off, but engage in meaningful activities.
Chances are that a friend who keeps you in the friend zone may want to
step things up when they start having you around again because they miss
you.
Create competition
Your friend may value you more if he or
she thinks he/she could lose you to someone else. Go out, make other
friends and do not restrict yourself to the person. People usually sit
up when they know they have competition. But be careful with this as
competition could spark up some jealousy. It is natural for partners to
get jealous of someone they love and too much of it is not healthy.
Reciprocate gestures
You may not be the right choice for
someone who wants to take a friendship to the next level if you always
take and never give back. Be grateful for gifts you receive, and when
you have the opportunity, give back. Don’t stop at that; be attentive
and affectionate. This encourages them to spot the qualities they would
want in a potential partner.
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